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Meet Jodi Erin


Hi, I’m Jodi!

I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist who loves helping people find their spark, fight their blocks, and get excited about their lives and relationships.

I offer psychotherapy, sex therapy, and specialized groups and courses to help my clients achieve their goals. I use an integrative approach tailored to their specific needs. I specialize in sexuality issues, intimacy issues, anxiety disorders, LGBTQI issues, and parent child relationships.

I love this work because I help people live happily in their own skin and work through mental blocks and trauma so that they may fully enjoy life! I offer an open, creative, and positive space for all types of people.

I welcome non-traditional families and people who live alternative lifestyles. My practice is sex-positive and I am kink/poly aware and LGBTQIA* friendly.

I can’t wait to see you shine,

Want to work with me?


Everyone has rough days sometimes and no one should have to go through it alone. Sometimes we can all use a cheerleader, a little extra support, or help finding our direction in life. Your unique spark, your purpose is often hidden in plain sight and you owe it to the world to cultivate it. I help people figure out what is blocking them from living the life of their dreams and then work with them to move forward towards their passion. Whether you need short-term, solution focused therapy to help you solve a problem in your life, or you need more in-depth, long-term counseling, I can help you set yourself up for a brighter tomorrow.

Sex Therapy

Sex is one of those things that a lot of people do, but many don’t talk about. In our culture it can feel like a taboo to talk about sex. All of the silence creates a lot of shame! In session, we can explore where you might feel blocked around sex so that you can feel empowered to have a pleasurable sex life.


Sometimes your relationship needs a little extra support too! I work with all types of relationships to help people grow, ignite their passion, and find their relationship spark.

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