Have you ever asked a sex therapist in Connecticut about fun things to do in the Summer?

New York City. Amsterdam. Milan. Paris. As a sex therapist in Connecticut, I know the Nutmeg State isn’t exactly known as a romantic or sexy destination. But anyone who’s worked with me knows: foreplay starts outside the bedroom, and planning fun, engaging activities with your lover can set the tone for passion when you get home.

Here are 5 Summer ideas for heating things up in “the country”.

As a sex therapist in Connecticut, I often speak to my clients about ways to bring their foreplay outside of the bedroom.

5. Plan A Weekend Getaway

As a sex therapist in Connecticut, I often speak to my clients about ways to bring their foreplay outside of the bedroom.

If relaxing and getting pampered helps you feel more excited about sex, there are plenty of small resorts along the Connecticut shoreline. One of my favorites is Saybrook Point. Perched on the edge of a gorgeous view of the Sound, it’s a charming spot for a romantic weekend away. If stress dampens your desire, book a massage at the spa before dinner (Fresh Salt is amazing!)—it can set the perfect mood for intimate connection.

Pro tip: Order breakfast in bed the next morning.

4. Hiking and Camping at Bear Mountain

Does adventure or novelty turn you on? Get in touch with your primal side by camping in the northeast corner of the state. Bear Mountain offers beautiful trails for a range of fitness levels. For the particularly adventurous, the hike to Sage’s Ravine leads to a secluded ravine and campground.

Pro tips:

• Hike in the morning or evening to beat the heat.

• The campground may be emptier midday-great timing for cozying up.

• Leave your tent flaps open to maximize airflow.

• Daylight makes tents opaque from the outside, but remember, sound travels. Want to spice things up? See how quiet you can be…

3. Dinner and Theatre in New Haven

Is intellectual stimulation your biggest turn-on? New Haven has vibrant cultural offerings all year long. Check out Elm Shakespeare Company’s summer Shakespeare in the park—it’s free, fun, and deeply romantic. This year’s performance of A Midsummer Night’s Dream promises a whimsical, sexy romp. Pack a picnic, bring a blanket, and get swept up in the story together.

Not into theatre? Dinner at Fair Haven Oyster Company offers aphrodisiacs and atmosphere, all with a water view.

2. Enjoy A Sunset at a Winery

Indulging in awe-inspiring experiences can help you feel more connected to nature and to each other. Gouveia Vineyards is perched on a hilltop with sweeping views of rolling grapevines, making it a perfect spot for sunset. Pack a light romantic picnic, bring a cozy blanket, and soak in the beauty.

Don’t drink? They also offer non-alcoholic beverages.

1. Lesser Known Beaches

Connecticut is full of beautiful beaches, but they’re often packed. If you’re craving more privacy and space to connect, try a lesser-known gem like Dubois Beach in Stonington. It’s quieter and offers a more intimate experience.

After a long day at the beach, maybe a shower together at home is the perfect transition into deeper intimacy…

If you are looking for a sex  therapist in Connecticut, feel free to message me for a free 15 minute consultation! Happy Summer!

*A note: I am not affiliated with any of these places and cannot guarantee that you will find them as sexy as others have in the past. These ideas and recommendations are for entertainment purposes only and are NOT psychiatric or medical advice.